Showing posts with label old news. Show all posts
Showing posts with label old news. Show all posts

Wednesday, 25 March 2015

Newsletter March 2015

Hi all,
 
I have one hour left at my crappy job and then I am free! I have landed a new contracting job just a couple of blocks away. Double the money! Hourly pay! Paid overtime! I can't wait - it has been a very long 19 months. I start my new job on Monday so I will have a couple of days off to relax before jumping in the deep end again. 
 
So what else is news?
 
Milord got a promotion to COO a month ago and he is Very Happy. Lots more money too... we are both finally back to where we were before we had kids :-) 
 
We are celebrating by replacing everything that has worn out around the house during our dark time. New pots and pans! Whee! New lounge suite. Towels. Perhaps a car upgrade shortly from my poor scuffed and leaky runabout... awesome.
 
The kids are well. Princess started school in Feb (year 0) and she Loves It. 8 weeks along and she is picking up reading and writing at an amazing rate. King has moved into the oldest room of his daycare and we hope this will help him along with his speech and counting - he just isn't interested. It's funny how different siblings can be.
 
Milord has also joined the local golf club and plays a couple of times a week. His handicap is creeping down which pleases him a lot! And I am contemplating finding art or sculpture classes on the weekends - it's been years since I touched a paintbrush!
 
Since I last wrote:
 
We had a wonderful Christmas break. 4 days at home over Christmas and then a week at the coast. Christmas was just us at home with pressies and too much food. New Years Eve we were asleep by 10, woken briefly by fireworks at midnight, and then again by some idiot setting theirs off at 4am! The kids (and the fucking kookaburras!) get up at dawn no matter what, so you learn to sleep when you can. The kids loved the beach - we all did. Lots of sand and sea and sunshine and white wine spritzers. This year we hope to get a place with a pool too and perhaps stay an extra week. 
 
Work has been mental. I've been working long 6-day weeks for months now. Half an hour to go now... LOL.
 
Princess got glasses. We are little worried that she might still not be using both eyes at the same time, I will be taking her back to the specialist in May.
 
For my birthday Milord and I took the day off and spent the day around Canberra, visiting art galleries and eating good food with lots of fine wine, and we ended by spending the night in a posh hotel. Most decadent and it took a few days to recover!
 
Canberra is being good to us. I have a good feeling about the rest of the year!
 


Friday, 19 September 2014

Newsletter September 2014

I've been looking through my sent emails and it seems I haven't emailed y'all since November last year - can that be true? I am so sorry! I've been in a bit of a dark place and that made it hard to write a proper letter (everything comes out bitter or superficial), but Facebook is not really a substitute.

Can you believe I have been living and working in Canberra for just over a year now? If you had told me back in January of 2013 that this would happen I would have laughed at you. "I'm not going back to work until the kids are in school. We have an agreement." Oh, how we laugh now.

What an interesting time this has been. (I think that's a Chinese curse? Okay wikipedia says not. It should be)

Let us recap. In February of 2013 Milord had a row with his boss and left his job. Without talking to me about it and with nothing lined up. We have recently (finally) talked about it and he swears he meant no disrespect to me, it was a rage thing. Which makes me feel better. I suppose.

Although Milord was confident he would waltz into another job he was wrong, so I started job hunting too. We shoved the kids into a daycare they haaated so that I would be free to work and my Mom put all her travelling plans on hold. However, it turns out that no one in Sydney wants someone who has been a stay-at-home mum for a few years to write their software - there are too many superstars clamoring for every role.

Savings ran out and we began living on credit cards, my Dad's inheritance, charity and welfare. We cast our jobsearch wider, beyond Sydney and beyond the state of New South Wales. Summer ended. Milord did a project manager course, and I did a programming course. By mid winter we were close to selling our house. We finished off some renovations and repainted it ready for sale.

Then suddenly, finally, we started getting nibbles on the job front. From Canberra. Not where we wanted to live - but also not where anyone really wants to live, which is why there were opportunities. I had a couple of interviews and Milord had a couple of phone calls. Then I landed a job in Canberra! We packed up the house, and left Sydney, and got tenants, and rented a place twice the size in Canberra for the same money, and bought an extra car!

My job sucked and I cried every night for a couple of weeks but I adapted and I am still there a year later. They LOVE me and I have had 2 decent pay increases and I am now almost being paid market value. I am biding my time for another 6 months and then I will be seeking something better.

Then Milord got a job! He really hated it at first but they LOVE him and he has a decent pay increase too. He's also biding his time for a bit longer before looking around for something better. He promises me he will not leave this job without another one lined up - no matter how angry he gets!

The kids got into a great daycare that they adore, and Princess will be starting "Big School" next January which she is very excited about. While my Mom's plans are still on hold while she does the stay-at-home-Gran thing she does manage to get away for the occasional long weekend in her campervan.

We remortgaged our Sydney house and paid off the credit cards, and have been mostly in the black since then.

We had Christmas in Sydney, house/dogsitting for a friend for 2 weeks. It rained a lot, but that was actually nice as we had a traditional midday dinner at friend's and it felt right to have a grey wet day! The kids got so many presents that they were both presented-out! We visited people and had a big informal barbeque one day and oodles of folk turned up. At one point there were 12 kids in the massive inflatable paddling pool!

Just before Easter Sis came over for a visit. Her first time to Australia, and her first time out of South Africa since she was a kid! (And her first ever jetlag heheheheh) The airlines looked after her very well (she has cerebral palsy) and the travel went smoothly. Mom picked her up in Sydney and they did some sightseeing there but Sis spent most of her time with us doing the family thing in Canberra. It was wonderful to see her and she had a lovely time with her nephew and niece.

Over Easter we went to the coast, to a town on the shore of a huge bay. The waves were small and the beaches white, it was not too hot and we all had a great time. Princess keeps asking to go back, and we have booked a house even closer to the beach for after this coming Christmas!

When winter arrived we were very glad of the central heating as we experienced below freezing temperatures at night (some of us for the first time). It snowed on the nearby hills a couple of times and we took the kids to see it. We built snowmen and threw snowballs and did a bit of tobogganing - it was good fun. Next year we may go to stay closer to the snow and maybe get the kids some skiing lessons - maybe!

Things are going well for us in Canberra - the quality of (family) life is way better than Sydney Inner West. Lots of space and a slower pace in general. And no traffic! I'd probably hate to be younger with no kids in search of a good night out, but that's certainly not on our radar.

My marriage took a beating over the past 18 months but we held it together, and we are now putting some work into repairing it.

We could do with some friends to take the pressure off the FAMILY... Milord is going to join the local golf course and hopefully make some friends. I am close to making friends with some workmates - these things take time, especially when we all have small children. Mom is going to campervan club meetups and might be making friends sometime soon too. Princess has made friends at daycare, and King doesn't know what a friend is.

So, that was my Most Excellent Interesting Adventure of the past year and a half. Sorry for the radio silence, I will try to correspond more regularly as I get my mojo back!

Old News

I am gathering documents to apply for British citizenship for Princess and King, and at one point I needed to list all the times I was out of the UK between 2002 and 2006. Who can remember that kind of thing offhand?! Not me!

So I logged into an ancient email account and went through some emails from my previous life. I found the info I was looking for, and I also found a window into the life of Saffa Chick 15 years ago. Quite fascinating. I've copied all my email newsletters into this blog to share - get a glass of wine it will suck you in for ages!

I was so young! Partying so hard! Kissing frogs! Hopping jobs! Travelling! Wow, no wonder I get homesick for that time and place sometimes.

I was also taken aback at how chatty my newletters were. Not unlike how chatty this blog used to be when I started it - I've lost my mojo somewhere along the way.

Perhaps I should start writing newsletters again? Facebook just isn't the same.

Friday, 21 December 2007

Old News - Newsletter December 2007

Another year draws to a close, and slowly I am starting to feel "home" here, after nearly two years in Australia.

Last January I sent off my application for a skilled independant permanent visa, which is based on points calculated from your age, qualifications and work experience. Luckily what I do is in high demand here at the moment, so I had points to spare! Even so, the paperwork took several nail-biting months to process, but I finally picked up my visa in August and I can work where I like and come and go as I please for the next few years, after which time they expect you to become a citizen. Passport 3 here I come!

Milord and I go from strength to strength. This has been a very good year for us after the initial learning curve of 2006! In the coming year we plan to buy a house together, and that will draw us closer and maybe make me put down roots here at last. Living in rented accommodation is just not the same!

I have been in the same job since March 2006, and I can't see me staying with it much longer. It has not been at all challenging this past year, and I was only staying because of visa sponsorship... I am now free to seek my fortune elsewhere! Hopefully for more money too ;-). It's a contract position so I can walk away at any time.

We've had a few memorable holidays this year. In March Milord and I went to South Africa for a couple of weeks and Milord fell in love with the place. We spent a week in Cape Town, and then a week in the Kruger Park. It was my first time in the Kruger and I was blown away! We are definitely talking about coming back sometime. He got to meet most of my family and friends, and is still with me so you all can't have been that bad!

In August we went to New Zealand to fetch my visa, and threw in a few days skiing in Queenstown. While it's a superb town and has stunning scenery, I wasn't that impressed with the ski slopes and I'm not sure we'll bother again - we'll probably try the local ski fields this coming winter. It was great to see H and C in Auckland though in their newly bought house.

In October K and P came over from the UK for a few weeks and we were able to join them for a few days of their trip. We went to Port Douglas, north of Cairns, for most of a week, and I'll definitely go back! Milord and I managed to sneak in a couple of dives, and it rates as some of the best diving I have done in Australia. Although that's not saying much... we are both very spoiled after the Red Sea!

Apart from that we haven't had much holiday this year. Milord's mum was extremely ill with cancer this year and we spent most of our free time and cash visiting her. She died in September, which is an enormous shame as I rather liked her. Milord is now "orphaned" and we will be spending Christmas with other folk who also can't be with their families.

On the weekends we sometimes get away for a break, or go flying in a light aircraft. We don't dive much around Sydney as it's cold and murkey, but sometimes we go for a snorkel to play with the underwater camera. Milord's been getting back into golf lately, and I'm still promising to get out my sketching gear but haven't made it off the couch yet! The summer has been extremely disappointing so far, very wet and mild. Hopefully it will cheer up before next winter - I'd love a scorching month or two ;-).

We have no holidays lined up for next year yet, as the house buying could put a stop to that sort of thing for a while... We are tossing around some diving/sailing plans though, so who knows?!

Stay well and have a wonderful festive season. Hug family for me, because I really miss you guys...

Wednesday, 22 August 2007

Old News - Newsletter August 2007

August is most of the way through – the year is starting to accelerate! So what have we been up to over the past month?

Milord’s mum is not doing very well. She has spent the last 10 days in hospital, and although they are saying she should be able to go home this Friday it is apparently a matter of weeks before her struggle is over. She is now on morphine, and caring for her at home is becoming impossible. We are heading to Brisbane over the coming weekend, but I’m not sure if she will be home or if we’ll just be visiting her in hospital. Milord doesn’t talk about it much, but I know it’s very hard on him and his sister.

I joined Milord in Brisbane for the last weekend of last month too – I am visiting once a month now, to see his mum while I still can. She made a real effort to dress and come downstairs to see me, which was lovely. While we were in Brisbane it was the 50th birthday party of an old friend of Milord’s, and they threw a barbeque for about 30 people. It was interesting meeting so many folk who have known him since he was young, and I think they were interested to meet me too! The funny things was, while most of the men are fast approaching 50, their (second+) wives are mostly my age, and we were overwhelmed with kids and babies. Quite reassuring, actually!

The City2Surf run happened the weekend before last… but sadly I was unable to run as I’d hurt my ankle. It seems I “overtrained” and inflamed the damn thing a few weeks before the run, and it never quite came right. The only cure is rest, so all I could do was wait for it to improve. Gillian and I still went along, and I managed to jog for nearly half an hour before it got too sore, and then we walked the rest of the 14km. It was a very pleasant walk! We got to watch the runners and see the scenery, and it felt like a lovely Sunday stroll. We still got medals (!) and our names in the paper, and are keen to try again next year ;-).

Last weekend I took Milord away to escape from life for a couple of days. We hired a tiny little bungalow on a ridge in the middle of nowhere a couple of hours north of Sydney, with a big spa tub on the veranda overlooking dense bush. It was perfect, we read books and napped and soaked and ate and drank lots of wine. We really needed the break, and came back feeling recharged.

At the end of the month we are off to NZ to pick up my visa and go skiing. That should be lots of fun, although we always have the shadow of Milord’s mum hanging over us… He has a flexible return so can hurtle back if necessary, while I really will need to hang around for my visa. It may not come to that though, so I’m not thinking about it!

Hmm what else? Work is boring, my weight is at a crisis level and I’ve actually dusted off my willpower and am starting to see results, and so far this month we are still within budget!

Friday, 13 July 2007

Old News - Newsletter July 2007

Well here we are at the middle of July, and I don’t think I have much news, but I’ll have a go anyway!

Milord’s mum is really ill. Her lung cancer is growing in spite of the chemotherapy now, and it has come to the point where the treatment would probably kill her sooner than the disease so they’ve stopped it. She’s been given a few months to live and Milord and his sister are taking turns in being with her 24 hours a day at her home in Brisbane. She wants to stay at home for as long as possible before going into a hospice, but someone has to be there all the time. Milord’s sister has suspended her job to be there during the week, and Milord is flying up most weekends to take over and let his sister go home to her family. It is very hard on them all.

So I’ve had the house to myself rather a lot recently. At first it was rather nice to have some space, but I’m over it now and miss him terribly. That is, until he comes home and grumps around the place like a bear with a sore head. I know it’s my job to absorb it and be cheerful, but I’m kind of over that too! Some days I feel like moving in with a mate and letting him and his horrible cat grump at each other instead. Bad girlfriend.

The househunting has been pretty awful. We’ve decided that it is one stress we can do without at this time and are taking a break from it. I don’t know when we’ll start again, but hopefully at the end of the year. I really miss my little house in England sometimes, and I’ve been ever so homesick lately. Probably because I just don’t like the house we are in now, and being in it alone really brings home what I am missing.

Anyway, enough moaning.

As you know, my permanent visa came through the other day (yay yay yay!) and I have to go out of the country to get it. We have booked to go to New Zealand in September, for a few days of skiing in Queenstown and a hop to Auckland to get my visa and visit H. I’m a bit nervous about skiing as it’s been about 5 years, and Milord and I have started exercising to build up our thighs. Hopefully it will all come back once I’m up the lift looking down the mountain!

Speaking of exercising, I have signed up for a Sydney fun run called the City to Surf, which is a 14km run from the centre of the city to Bondi beach. The main reason I signed up was to have an incentive to get running to hopefully shake off some weight. Sadly I’m doing something wrong, because although I am fitter and faster I am actually gaining weight! Running isn’t supposed to build muscle, is it? I have also started using a personal trainer once a week, and she’s killing me. Lunges, squats, press-ups, all the things I really don’t like! Hmmm, maybe that’s where the “muscle” is coming from… On the positive side I have beaten my personal best around the Bay, at last! Tomorrow I intend to try to run the Bay twice, as that is pretty much the same distance as the City to Surf. I imagine I’ll be walking most of the second circuit!

That’s about it, not very interesting… We’re trying to pay off our credit cards so aren’t getting out much, it’s quite cold and surprisingly wet.

Tuesday, 12 June 2007

Old News - Newsletter June 2007

I got my visa!

YES yes yes yes!

Finally, after 8 months of paperwork and waiting I am the proud holder of a visa grant for a Skilled Independent Migration visa! All on my own merit, no mention of Milord anywhere in my application, all me me me ;-). I'm emphasizing that because some of Milord's mates still think I am sponging off him, using him for a visa and financial gain. Not bloody likely!

Oh gosh I'm so excited! It's like waking up at christmas to a mound of pressies under the tree!

Now I just need to leave the country for somewhere with an Ozzie consulate to stick the visa into my passport, and return back on it. We're thinking of going skiing in NZ in August...

Might skip home early and crack the champagne...

La la llaaa la la woohoooo!

*big grin*

Wednesday, 16 May 2007

Old News - Newsletter May 2007

Hm, another month gone by, that wasn't very exciting...

Not sure what we've been up to, certainly not much worth writing home about! Our finances have finally recovered from the SA holiday, so we're starting to socialise again (lots of birthdays this month) and are dreaming of the next trip. Not sure where, but probably within Oz - skiing or sailing or something - it's such a big place you can actually choose between snow or 30 deg at the same time!

Of course, that's if we don't buy a house in the meantime, which looks unlikely. Househunting in Sydney SUCKS! I HATE it. Anything we like is totally out of our price range, and I'm fed up with spending all Saturday driving around looking at houses. Milord is still resisting looking in the cheap suburbs, so nasty little shoeboxes are all we see, and we STILL can't afford them... There is a place up for auction this weekend that we both mostly like, but I just know it's going to go for $50k more than we can consider spending. I don't even want to watch the bidding this time.

Aaargh.

So the good news is that we're not doing much househunting this month ;-). Last weekend we visited friends of Milord's (RuralChick, P and their little kids C and W) who live about 2 hours away south west. They have a huge property in the middle of nowhere, and the guest quarters are in a converted barn. It was glorious and private, and after a very late Friday night chatting with too much wine Milord and I didn't join the family in the main house until midday! RuralChick is the best friend of Milord's ex so I was on eggshells, but they were fine. I spent most of the time playing with the kiddies and kittens anyway. It was a good break, and lovely to get out of town.

This Saturday Milord is playing golf so we can't househunt, and next weekend he's away on a boy's drinking golf weekend. Fab, not only no househunting, but a girlie weekend ;-). I have decided to definitely break out the pencils and paper and attempt a sketch while he is away, I have no excuses now!

We have a girlfriend of mine, A, staying with us at the moment. She broke up with her bloke and needs a place to crash for a while. Looks like they're getting back together, but she'll be with us for the rest of the month probably while she sets the terms of the makeup. Long involved drama... makes me appreciate my nice steady normal fella (and hopefully him me)! She's a good houseguest though, washes up, feeds the cat when we're away, and hasn't complained about my cooking yet.

Work's pretty dull. I'm not sure I'll be renewing my contract at the end of June, I need a new challenge. That, or more money - we'll see what they say when the time comes!

My perm visa application continues. I finally passed the medicals after shelling out a fortune on specialists and tests. I have a benign kidney condition that causes thin membranes and sometimes blood in my urine. Genetic apparently, can't be fixed and has no symptoms or detrimental effects. I now just need my police clearances from the UK and SA and I'm sorted.

Um, what else? I'm gymming like crazy because the weight I lost before SA has insidiously crept back on. Firm fat, yay.

Hey, I don't think I ever told you how Milord's nose and throat apnoea (and snoring) operation turned out! Well, it's a great success. He hardly snores now, only on his back or when we've been boozing, and even then not too loud. When we keep off the grog for a few days he's as quiet as a mouse ;-). We've also recently changed the mattress for one with no bounce and I can't feel him turn over (used to nearly bounce me out of bed sometimes!), so my sleeping is the best it's been in over a year. I am a different person, and so is he - cheerful and full of energy. Fabulous.

That's it. How I write so much about so little I don't know ;-)

Thursday, 19 April 2007

Old News - Newsletter April 2007

We went to a house auction (most inner Sydney houses sell by auction, damn irritating) last night but it went past our finance limit so fast it was actually funny! We've been hunting for a month now, and this weekend have decided to take a break. No rush, and our expectations are slowly coming down. Sydney is sooooooo expensive! Half a million dollars gets you a hovel.

Easter was very quiet, we are still absolutely skint. It rained most of the time so we lazed about reading the paper and watched movies. A spot of gardening when it dried long enough... nice ;-). A couple of meals out and at friends, and I beat him around The Bay by 3 seconds heh heh heh. We went to the Easter Show which is not really our thing... I know where milk comes from, thanks.

Milord had a birthday last week and we had a mob around for a barbie, but it was a schoolnight so fairly civilised. I spoiled him rotten starting over the Easter weekend, although as he'd bought "us" a $2000 camera the other day he only got token pressies ;-). More than I got grumble grumble rhubarb...

My visa application is dragging along. I have received one out of three police checks back (Oz, still waiting for UK and SA), and my medical exam has turned complicated... I have to see a urologist now. I feel healthier than I've ever been, so it's probably nothing! I'll keep you posted ;-).

On Sunday we are doing our first dive in ages, helping remove fishing line from the seabed... Should be interesting, and a good excuse to buy a dive knife!

Work is pretty dull - we have a major release going out this week so we're sitting around while it goes through testing. Not enough bugs obviously! Plenty of time for browsing and blogging, but the days drag...

Wednesday, 10 January 2007

Old News - Newsletter January 2007

Happy New Year and all that! I hope you had a good one.

My December was not terribly eventful apart from the usual round of gatherings and parties that happen in the silly season. I was somewhat broke after a whole month’s holiday, and just getting back into the work routine was hard enough!

For Christmas we travelled to Brisbane to be with Milord’s mum for a week. She isn’t doing too well on the lung cancer front and we don’t think she’ll be around much longer… Having said that though, she felt far better while we were there than she has in a long time, and I think she had a nice Xmas. The doctors have changed her chemicals to something that makes her feel less ill, and she was able to enjoy her meals for a change.

On Christmas day Milord’s sister, brother in law, two nieces and two elderly aunts came over, and after a nice lunch of cold meats and salad everyone under 50 had a lot of fun in the pool. It actually started raining but we ignored it and carried on. I am a hit with the nieces (9 and 14) and they didn’t want to go home ;-). It’s nice that I have met the family a couple of times now, as I was able to relax and be myself and they still seem to like me!

It was a very relaxing (read: dull) week away. Milord's mum lives in the middle of nowhere - not even a local pub within walking distance. She has a large pool which was lovely for 2 days, then it rained for 4 days straight and if I hadn't taken several books with me I think I would have gone mad. We visited a few mates, but the taxi ride each way was $50 so that was kind of off-putting. M is now living in Brisbane, and she came over for lunch on Boxing Day which was fab ;-).

We came home the Friday before New Years, and it was great to be back in our own home in the middle of buzzing Sydney. I don’t think I’m ready for suburban life!

On New Years Eve we went to a friend’s house where they had a gathering of 10 or so people. They live within walking distance of the harbour, so we first walked to a high point for the 9pm fireworks on the water, and then later walked to the water’s edge for the midnight fireworks on the water and on the Harbour Bridge. I think we ended up walking almost 3 hours in total, which was a blessing as it stopped me drinking and I was fine to drive home later!

The fireworks were spectacular both times, and I was very chuffed to have seen in my first New Year’s in Australia in Sydney!

The party pretty much ended at 2am, Milord and I hung about for a while drinking water until I was sure I was ok, and then we headed home and got to bed at 4am. That’s the first non-hung-over New Years day I’ve had in a long time!

Since then things have been quiet. We are completely broke! We reckon the entire Xmas holiday including flights and presents came to over $3000 (GBP 2000 eek) so we’re utterly skint!

I have also just sent off my application for a full migration visa, and that’s costing $2000, which has cleaned out my local bank accounts completely… I better get it!

Milord and I are now on a strict diet; we are exercising and have cut out booze Mon-Thurs, but weighed ourselves yesterday and have lost nothing :-(. Very discouraging as we would love to drop a few kg before SA in March. We'll stick to it though and hopefully something will happen soon! All my clothes are far too tight, and I can wear nothing from last summer... it's driving me crazy as I refuse to go up a dress size!

It was my anniversary on Sunday - can you believe I have been here a year already! We celebrated by walking/jogging 10km, then meeting mates over from the UK for a pub lunch! And then had a nice meal out in Balmain with far too much champagne... perhaps that's why I have lost no weight!!!

It's been a quite a disappointing summer so far, cool and quite wet. Although nothing in the dam catchment area so we’re still on water restrictions! Even Milord has stopped saying how nice it is not to be hot, and has joined me in hoping for some sunny scorching weather! Oh well, the lawn is nice and green…

What else…? We’ve started gently house-hunting, as we have decided to buy property together (big step!). I doubt we can afford anything at all in Balmain, so we’re looking a little further out of town. We will most likely have to get on the property ladder by starting with an apartment for a couple of years, as we’re not ready for the ‘burbs ;-). All very exciting!

51 days to my next hol!

Thursday, 7 December 2006

Old News - Newsletter December 2006

I’m back again after a fabulous month-long holiday, travelling around Oz with my mum (and Milord here and there).

I’ve attached a map of Oz, with numbering for your reference ;-).

Mom arrived at the crack of dawn on Dec first, and after a shower and champagne brunch we took her out for the famous Black@dder introductory tour of Sydney (1). This involves a stroll through Balmain to the ferry stop, a ferry ride under the Harbour Bridge and past the Opera House to Circular Quay, then a walk along the water past the Opera House (with pub stop) and Botanical Gardens to Lady Macquarie’s Chair viewpoint and Woolloomooloo (another pub stop). Then a leisurely walk through the middle of town to the Darling Harbour waterfront and a late lunch overlooking the water, then a taxi ride home. Then more wine sitting in the garden…We managed to keep mum up til 9pm, which is pretty good going, and she says she slept quite well til 3am… We have a lot of big crow-like birds here called magpies (which tootle) and carawongs (which have a moaning caw) that like to congregate in the garden at daybreak… mum didn’t appreciate that one bit although she got used to it by the end!

The next couple of days encompassed the Aquarium, Fish Markets, Sydney Museum, various lunches and barbeques, and culminated in a belated birthday dinner for mum in the lovely Café Sydney which is on the fifth floor of the old Customs House overlooking the Opera House and Harbour Bridge, lit up at night.

On Sat the 4th mum and I flew to Tasmania and drove to the Cradle Mountain National Park (2), which is lovely and rugged. It reminded us a lot of Scotland in fact, and even snowed to reinforce the impression! We stayed in a lovely little cottage with a huge gas fire, so had a pleasant place to warm up and dry off in after going walking during the day ;-). We spotted wombats grazing, and also spent a bit of time at a Tasmanian Devil info center and got to stroke one… turns out the ravening beast image is not true at all, they’re really shy and only eat dead things. They’re about the size of a staffi, with heavy neck and shoulders, very interesting. We also saw a few wallabies, one of which kept turning up on our porch hoping to be fed!

After 4 nights on Tasmania we flew to Melbourne, and drove due west a couple of hours to the coast, then spent the next two days driving east along the Great Ocean Road (3), which is stunning. Cliffs, rock formations in the surf, winding roads through mountain passes, rainforest and rolling green hills dropping down to holiday villages on white sandy beaches. We also saw koalas perched in gum trees munching on leaves, completely unfazed by us underneath! We reached Melbourne (4) on Friday night, had a really blustery walk along the beachfront near kite-surfers while looking for a sheltered pub and ended up in a very funky backstreet bohemian area called St Kilda out of the wind watching the weird world go by ;-).

Back to Sydney on the Saturday, and Milord and I went to the U2 concert that night, which was as well done as ever, although they’re getting rather too political these days for my taste and kept losing the momentum. On the Sunday Milord took us flying in a little 4-seater plane over the Blue Mountains, then along the coast past Manly Beach and the Heads, and we were able to fly up the harbour and do a few circles near the Harbour Bridge and Opera House, which was fantastic! Our neighbours threw an impromptu barbeque that night and invited us, which was very pleasant. The neighbourhood possum also made an appearance, walking along the tops of the fences!

Milord decided he fancied coming with us to the Hunter Valley (5), so we did a bit of sightseeing on Monday waiting for him to finish work, then travelled there in the evening. We stayed in his (and his ex’s) golf apartment, which is pleasant and quite central. It needs a bit of TLC though, so on Tuesday mum and I had a bask by the pool while Milord shopped for paint etc, then we all mucked in and gave the place a slight makeover. Most of the effort happened on the balcony, with pressure hoses, paint and furniture oil in full flight. Inside we had a spring clean and touched up paintwork – it all looked far better in the end although we were all covered in paint! It’s been on the market for over a year so hopefully this will help. On Wednesday Milord volunteered to be chauffer and tour guide, and we had an excellent wine tour and lunch in the region. Everyone is so friendly, and being out of season we could have a good chat with the staff and try everything ;-). We also spotted a couple of galahs (big pink parrots) in a tree at the golf course.

On Thursday the 16th we all travelled to the Blue Mountains (6) via the scenic, windy back roads, and checked into a somewhat scruffy and grubby but very cheap cottage in Blackheath. Not Milord’s style at all, but he wasn’t supposed to be along on that leg of the trip so I hadn’t allowed for his sensibilities! Then a quick sightsee to the nearest gorge, before heading home to play with the log stove which made it all warm and homely.

Friday morning early Milord headed back to Sydney on the train to go to a birthday lunch/dinner/boozeup, and mum and I went for a glorious scenic walk along cliffs at Katoomba overlooking a vast gorge where we could see flocks of cockatoos flying through the trees below. We walked to where there used to be coal mines, and travelled to the valley floor on a thrilling almost vertical railway that used to carry ore to the top. We had very interesting roam around in the forest and saw a rare lyre-bird, then took a cable car back and walked back to the car. After a late lunch we went exploring in a vast rhododendron garden … being so high up it stays pretty cold in spring and they were just finishing, but we could still enjoy acres of colour.

On the Saturday morning Milord came back very hungover on the train, and after a fry up we headed off for the Gardens of Stone national park which I’d read about somewhere. We’d hoped to go walking but couldn’t find any trails so Milord ended up doing an extremely exciting impromptu 4x4 drive through some fantastic scenery. It’s the first time we’ve tested the car (big 4wd Lexus) off-road and we were pleasantly surprised! We were in the bush for hours, and it was fascinating to see the GPS showing us meandering around in uncharted territory… Then back to the cottage for a jug or two of g&t and a roast dinner.

Sunday was a slow start, with the smell of ash from the back-burning around a nearby bushfire that had been raging for nearly a week. The clouds of smoke over the ridge were truly ominous! We went out to do a walk along the nearby gorge, only to find it completely filled with smoke… we decided to head home to Sydney instead and had a quiet night in. I later heard that the fire jumped the back burning and entered the gorge, which is a shame.

On Monday 20th we did a bit of sightseeing and shopping for dive gear, then joined Milord for lunch before going home to pack.

On Tuesday we flew to Uluru (Ayers Rock) (7), got picked up by a “safari” outfit along with 12 others and headed off to the rock. It was very hot, about 45 deg, so we just did a gentle walk around the base before heading off to watch the sunset change the colours of Uluru. Turns out I’d found a rather, ahem, budget outfit, so we got to watch other tour groups sipping champagne from crystal while the 14 of us shared 2 bottles in scruffy plastic mugs! That kind of set the tone for the rest of the evening (rather blah dinner and no booze to be had), although we had the bonus of our own tent/hut with light and fan when most of the group bunked down in dark dorms. We were the only English speakers in our group, then rest being mostly young Germans and a couple of Japanese – pleasant enough but we didn’t exactly click!

The next day we woke before dawn and set off to watch the sun rise over Uluru and the Olgas (a nearby mountain outcrop sort of similar). We did a walk in the Olgas, through amazing deep red mountains and rock outcroppings. It was hot at 8am, and by late morning when we left the safari and checked into our room in the resort it was scorching! We gratefully collapsed in our en-suite air-conditioned room with a bottle of cold wine and two fresh fruit salads and had a much needed nap, before going to sit in the shade beside a very welcome swimming pool for the rest of the afternoon.

On Thursday we lazed around the resort until midday when we flew to Sydney airport, met Milord and flew immediately to Brisbane (8) to spend the night with his mum, Rita. She is in the middle of a chemo course so was very ill, but managed to stay up quite late chatting to us, and our mums were pleased to have met each other.

Friday we flew to Townsville (9), near Cairns, and spent the afternoon in a pub/restaurant on the beachfront. It was so pleasant there that we had lunch, stayed for more drinks, and when the kitchen reopened we had dinner there too! Then boarded our dive boat and headed off to sea… It’s a somewhat slow boat so took 8 hours to get to the first mooring, through some rather heavy chop and swell. Mum gets seasick, so had dosed herself up for days to deal with it, but lying down in the corkscrewing dark was all too much and she ended up bent over the rail in the darkness with waves breaking over the deck for all 8 hours! When I found her in the morning it was all she could do to sip a glass of water, and she skipped the first dive of the day and instead had a bit of a snorkel.

Luckily the weather and waves were kind from then on, and mum recovered enough to get her appetite back and join us on the rest of the dives. It is definitely the best diving I have done in Australia, reasonable visibility and lots to see. We also did a night dive, which was not as creepy as I expected, and also not as interesting as most of the fish are asleep! Our final two dives were on the wreck of the Yongala, which has been in 25m of water since 1911 and is so overgrown with coral that she looks like a wreck-shaped reef! It’s an excellent site and we’d like to go back, but maybe on a faster boat for a daytrip ;-). We had a nice crowd of 10 other divers with us, from Sweden, America, Oz and England, and the crew were excellent. A bit no-frills, but I can certainly recommend them!

We spent a glorious night back on dry land in big beds that don’t rock with en-suite and air-con in Townsville on Monday night, and flew back to Sydney on Tuesday 28th where we collapsed.

The last few days were very relaxed as we were all exhausted. Poor Milord had to go back to work, and mum and I did some gentle sightseeing for the last couple of days including climbing up one of the Harbour Bridge pylons for amazing views. We had a mob of people over on Thursday night for a barbie to meet the parent ;-), and mum flew home on Friday night.

We are all now back at work trying to get back into routine, and trying to shift the sneaky holiday kilos that crept on! Not easy in December!

Hmm what else? For Xmas we’re going to Brisbane to spend it with Milord’s mum and family as she’s not doing very well. We’ll be back for New Years though – my first hot one in about 8 years – can’t wait!

Work-wise I’m still at Readers Digest, and have been contracted to stay on til June. I am also in the process of applying for a full migration visa, as I now have enough points because they changed the classification of my skills! That will be great to get as then I’ll be free to work for whomever I like instead of just the agency who hold my current visa. All going well I should get it next May/June…

Apart from that I’m counting down to our trip to SA in March. We’re coming over to CT, Gauteng and the Kruger for 2 weeks – a bit fleeting but we can’t take much more time off and still holiday again in the year.

That’s it! Well done if you read this far ;-)

Best wishes for Christmas and the New Year!

Sunday, 12 November 2006

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Just a v quick note to say I haven't dropped off the planet... I'm on holiday for the whole of November! My mum is over for the whole month, so we have been sightseeing and travelling since the 1st.

So far we've done lots of Sydney, 4 nights in Tasmania and 3 nights doing the Great Ocean Road in Victoria. Had this weekend at home, and tonight off to the Hunter Valley wine region, then the Blue Mountains for the week. Milord is coming with us this week as he didn't like being left at home last week!

All is going really well and we're having a ball ;-)

Tuesday, 8 August 2006

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We got back on Saturday after a glorious week sailing in the Whitsundays... what a fabulous time we had! Turquoise sea, white sand and green islands. Not too hot, not too cold, amazing snorkeling, ok scuba and not a single argument ;-).

We had an entire 40ft boat to ourselves (sleeps 6), so Milord and I had a cabin each for clothes dumping, and used the main one for sleeping. Two loos, a decent galley, and more than enough space once we got used to the dimensions and stopped walking into things (I am still covered in bruises!).

We did a couple of days of good sailing (up to 9 knots once), but for the rest of the time it was not very windy and we motored around which is very civilized (trying to drink a glass of wine at a 45 deg slant is not easy).

We moored in sheltered bays overnight, and had some awesome sunsets. Asleep by 9 most nights so up to watch amazing sunrises with a coffee shortly followed by fruit salad and champagne...

We got the charter company to provision the boat with a set package, which was interesting. Felt like a contestant on "Ready steady cook" for a lot of the time! Neither of us are into sweets, so we were left with a whole cheesecake and fruitcake by the last day, but had finished the nuts and crisps halfway through the trip! Probably a good thing as we didn't gain nearly as much weight as we could have!

We picnicked on the famous 5 mile long pure white Whitehaven beach, but apart from swimming ashore once to walk to a snorkeling site we didn't touch land again for 5 days.

I absolutely loved it, and we are already talking of going again next year. Maybe a couple of weeks later in the year when it is warmer, and next time we fancy trying a catermaran ;-).

Flippin expensive, but totally worth it! It was surprisingly tiring too - I don't think we slept very well on the boat at all - we have been doing not much apart from sleep since we got back. Oh, a huge bed which doesn't rock and creak, what a sweet pleasure!

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7 months here now – I took Milord out last night to celebrate and am feeling a tad fragile today ;-). It’s going to be a long week!

It’s going to be an especially long week actually, as we are off on holiday on Saturday and I can’t wait! The plan was to go skiing with mates for a week, but they’ve been a bit distracted and the snow just isn’t good, so Milord and I have decided to go sailing around the Whitsunday Islands a few hours flight north instead! It’s going to cost double (don’t even ask!) but sounds worth it ;-).

We are chartering a fully catered 40ft yacht for 5 nights for just the two of us, and will be setting our own itinerary around tropical islands with white sand beaches and coral reefs. We can stop pretty much anywhere at night, and we are planning snorkelling, beach walking and lying in the sun with champagne! We’ll be taking our dive gear too as there are a couple of good sites along the way… Oh it’s a hard life!

Apart from that the past month has not been very exciting. We’ve been very busy, but literally nothing to write home about! Far too much domestic stuff sorting out the shed and garden, helping friends move, dinners out and at home… Milord’s been off to Brisbane a few times to see his mum, who’s doing as well as can be expected.

I’ve watched a bit of rugby wearing my new SA supporter’s jersey… You’ll be thrilled to know I was the only greenie in a sea of gold at my local pub the night we lost 49-nil. I had to leopard crawl out of the back door and home afterwards! Last weekend Milord and I went to the SA v Aus game, which was much less embarrassing. I’ve got to download the words to our anthem sometime though, as I just can’t remember it!

We went to an AFL (Aussie Rules) game a few weeks ago too. I didn’t quite get into it for various reasons, so we’re going to have to try it again sometime. Milord and I actually skipped the final quarter (the game goes on for over 2 hours which was a bit much!) and wandered off looking for a pub instead…

Um, that’s about it. I’ll send out a proper jealous making one of crystal sea and sparkling sand soon to make up for it ;-)

Wednesday, 28 June 2006

Old News - Newsletter June 2006

Gee time flies! I’ve been here almost 6 months and it’s whizzing by.

Milord and I are doing very well. We are now finally entering the “honeymoon period”. It’s taken some getting to, but he’s had a lot of baggage to work through (me too I guess!). Kinda the reverse of the usual relationship pattern, but I’m hoping this means the lovey dovey part will be so much better as it’s built on a strong foundation!

It’s winter at this end of the world, and surprisingly chilly. Although Sydney is on the same latitude as Cape Town, it is not surrounded by sea to keep the temperatures moderate so gets quite a bit colder (and hotter in summer). On the up side there are no storms to contend with! It’s been getting close to zero on the clear nights lately, although still reaching the mid teens during the day. I have had to dig out gloves and scarf for the morning bus wait. Luckily Milord hates being cold too, so our house is nice and cosy to come home to at night.

The house is a complete shambles at the moment though. The landlord has got painters in, so it is total chaos with furniture moved and drop cloths everywhere. They are repairing the ceiling where damp caused peeling, and also giving the rest of the place a lick of paint. Should be nice when it’s done, but in the meantime we can hardly bear to be home with the mess and the smell! Our smoke alarm was going crazy last night until we took the battery out, so heaven knows what we’re breathing. The cat is sulking about it too.

On top of that we are in the middle of erecting a shed in the back yard, so that looks like a bomb has hit it and there is dirt tracked everywhere. What should have taken 2 days to do looks to be taking 4 now and costing double… We miscalculated the size of the (huge) shed we ordered so preparing the foundation took ages, and Milord measured the old slabs incorrectly so we can’t actually use them and need to buy more, and we had to tear down the back fence to get at things (it’s being replaced anyway, luckily), and the garden has more of a slope than we thought so there was heaps of digging to do and now we have a mound of dirt we have to do something with, and and and… Luckily we both have a good sense of humour, and the friends who came over to help say this is the norm for a Milord project and find it funny too ;-). We all worked until dark last Saturday and Sunday, and now we have 80% of the foundation laid and the shed frame erected. Another fun weekend coming up!

I broke a tooth last week. I have had a cracked molar for years, but the dentists always reckoned it would last a bit longer.. Well, it’s been really bothering me over the last month, so I made an appointment to see someone about it. Two days later, on a Friday night, Milord and I were having a quick pub meal after work before going to a movie, and I suddenly had a chunk of tooth gone. It was unbearably uncomfortable, and I had visions of having to cope for an entire weekend when I suddenly remembered that there was a medical centre over the road. We popped in and the dentist actually had a free appointment and was able to patch me up - great luck. The temporary fix is rough and lumpy and bugs me, but I can live with it for a couple of weeks until the crown is ready. It’s costing $900 (that’s R5000 or GBP350). Oh well, had to happen some time.

What else have we been up to?

We went away for a diving weekend last month to Jervis Bay. It’s a lovely area, lots of tiny villages and white sandy beaches with a holiday town feel. We did a couple of ok dives, but I have decided that I’m not diving in winter again. My wetsuit is pretty good, but I found I was chilly on the boat, then cold under water, then very cold on the boat and then freezing underwater! I never got a chance to warm up and simply got colder and colder. Milord was laughing at me that night as I huddled shivering next to the fire in all my layers while he was overheating.

We’ve been to the Hunter Valley for a golf competition weekend again too. This time we stayed in the apartment Milord and his ex own in the golf resort. They’re trying to sell it but the market is dead. It’s very nice, bright and airy, and I spent the days curled up in the sun reading, then meeting him in the bar in the afternoon. On the Saturday night there was a function that we went along to, and we tried out some of our dance steps. I’ve managed to talk Milord into going for Jive lessons with me, and we have now been to 3. He’s picked it up very easily although he still finds things a bit frustrating. After far too much wine I started showing him a few dips and drops which got hysterically funny as he couldn’t get the hang of one lean and I found myself on the floor with him fallen on top of me. Several times! (Hey K, remember the side lean, cross body lean, full drop move? It goes very wrong if you don’t know what you’re doing!)

Hmm what else?

My boxes from the UK have finally arrived, so I now have my clothes and pictures and various bits with me. I think Milord was expecting an awful lot more to arrive, as everything simply absorbed into his house before he got home on the delivery day ;-). He’d been talking about putting my stuff into storage and I kept saying there wasn’t that much on its way! It is nice to have my things here now though, it is starting to feel like my home too. I am now inflicting all my photo albums on him a couple at a time ;-). We’ve got as far as me leaving SA in 1999…

I’ve been to my first rugby game ever! We went to Aus v England the other day and I really enjoyed it. We will be going to Aus v SA in a few weeks time, and I’ve asked my Dad to send me a SA supporter’s jersey so I’ll be a greenie in a sea of gold ;-). Should be fun.

On the subject of sport we’re all a bit sad to be out of the soccer world cup. It’s the first time Aus has qualified since 1967 or something, and we got quite excited when we made it out of our pool. Of course with the time difference all the games are on after midnight so I didn’t actually watch any (Milord did though). I was going to make the effort if we got to the semis…

Milord’s mum is very ill. She now has lung cancer in both lungs and is undergoing chemo again. They reckon they can stop it, but not cure it, so she may not be around for much longer. Milord’s very upset, and he’s flying to Brisbane every few weeks to spend time with her. It is a very hard time for all of them and I feel completely helpless.

I’m still in the same job. My contract is currently extended to the end of July, and will possibly extend longer. I just need it to go to mid September and then I can apply for the full visa, so hold thumbs! Ideally I’d like to stay on til the end of October, as I’m going travelling with my Mom for the whole of November. Can’t wait!

That’s about it. We’re very busy as usual, and next month looks to be hectic again. Never a dull moment ;-).

Tuesday, 16 May 2006

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I’m still having a good time here and settling in slowly. It’s not quite “home” yet, but that might only happen when we are living in a place of our own and I can put down roots. Milord went away with the boys for a golf weekend a few weeks ago, and I realised that I really don’t like the house without him in it! Not lonely exactly, just not comfortable and very restless. Some days I really miss my little house in Thatcham ;-). We’re planning to buy something small early next year, so I’ll just have to hang in there until then.

Work is going well. I’ve been extended to the end of June, and I expect them to keep me on longer too as their final deadline is only September and we have loads still to do. I hope so, as it's a super team and a very convenient location! June is the end of the financial year, so once they get their new budget I guess I’ll know what’s happening.

Hey - great news - I've realised that once I've been working over here for 6 months I can apply for the full-on immigration visa as I’ll gain enough points (before I'm 35 next year though when I lose some again, so a small window) and then I don't have to think about it ever again. No having to find a company to sponsor me, or hoping Milord will propose (!!!). Then I'll be on track for perm residency and citizenship and all that... passport 3 here I come ;-).

The relationship with Milord takes plenty of work, but it's definitely worth it (funnily enough he says the same thing). After 4 months we're still happy together and talking about the future, so that's a very good sign. His snoring and apnoea is a major issue in our lives, but he did a sleep clinic and has now been referred to a surgeon for treatment, so things are happening… Occasionally I manage a decent night’s sleep in spite of it and Milord says I am a different person when I do! I can’t wait for it to be the norm rather than the exception! He does spoil me outrageously though – he makes my packed lunch most days, when he could have an extra half hours sleep instead!

What else have I been up to…

We went away for Easter to Lady Elliot Island at the bottom of the Barrier Reef and it was lovely. Still not Sharm, but certainly the best diving either of us has had in Aus. The resort is super eco friendly, so a bit rustic, but that’s ok. It’s a bird and marine sanctuary so the critters have the run of the place and are very cheeky. Lots of turtles and rays, and a couple of sharks (luckily more scared of us than we were of them). It’s a coral cay, so lots and lots of great coral formations.

Speaking of diving, next weekend we are going away to Jervis Bay (2 hours south) to go diving. Could be freezing, as we’re almost to mid winter now, but I hope I’ll be ok. Milord bought me dive gloves and a thin thermal top to wear under my wetsuit, which will make a difference. We’re hiring a gorgeous apartment with spa bath, gas fire, and large windows looking out over the sea, so thawing out is definitely going to be good ;-).

It’s quite nippy here now - down to below 10 every night, and of course the houses are designed to let heat out! (Plus ours has windows that don’t close). I can’t wait for my boxes with my winter wardrobe to arrive (should be next week) as I have 1 jacket, 1 fleece and one jumper in rotation! I miss my boots too. I haven’t needed gloves or scarf yet, although I see the locals quite bundled up – that’ll be me next year…

Did I tell you Milord has a light plane licence which he's just renewed? He took me flying the weekend before last - all along the coast past the Sydney harbour entrance and over Manly and Bondi. It was gorgeous, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. We are talking about flying over the Blue Mountains next time, should be very cool.

Apart from that, lots of lunches, pubbing and dinner parties – we went to a Bollywood themed one the other day and I’ll send along a picture ;-). Life is pretty amazing – Sydney is almost a blend of London and Cape Town, the best of both ;-). Every now and then Milord and I meet up in the Fish Market on a weekday for lunch and share a kilo of prawns and a bottle of wine looking out over the harbour… it doesn’t get much better!

Tuesday, 11 April 2006

Old News - Newletters April 2006

I can’t believe it’s been a month already!

Life is pretty crazy over here, we’ve been very busy. Milord’s birthday was yesterday, so there have been things on for that – we hosted a bbq on Sunday for around 20 people. It went well although I seemed to be running around making salad and tidying etc far too much (I miss having other girlies to help – it doesn’t seem an Aussie thing to come over early to pitch in. And people don’t bring anything except booze so you have to make 5 salads not just one). Probably a good thing as I didn’t get much of a chance to eat or drink, and I woke feeling much (much) better than Milord in the morning!

Last night I took Milord out for drinks in the rather posh 36th floor cocktail lounge of the Shangri La hotel which overlooks Sydney harbour. The view is amazing, and we had a wonderful sunset. Then I surprised him with a night in another hotel where our room overlooked the harbour bridge and we stayed in and had room service and a candlelit bath. This morning we had a champagne breakfast in our room watching the ferries come and go in the sunshine, and it was glorious. Not cheap, but very good.

The weekend before last we went away to the Blue Mountains just for a break from domestic life. We hired a wood cabin in a very remote location, and were completely out of phone signal and could relax with no distractions. Big weekend papers, a simmering log stove indoors (it was very chilly in the mountains!), and wine in the sunshine on the veranda overlooking the valley – just what we needed. When we are at home there is always something that needs doing, but there we could shelve all that and simply enjoy. On the Sunday we did go for a good hard walk down and up the hill and along the valley, so did do some exercise too!

For Easter we’re off to Lady Elliot Island, which is right at the southern end of the Barrier Reef. It is a sanctuary so quite basic, but we plan to spend as much time as possible under water so that’s ok! We fly out tomorrow and get back on Monday. I haven’t had a good dive since Egypt, so I’m really looking forward to it.

Work is going very well. I work with a nice bunch of people, the managers know what they are doing, and we are working hard enough that the days fly but we’re not killing ourselves (yet). If you’re interested I’m working on a new Call Centre web app for Readers Digest, replacing about 10 disparate ancient systems. We’re using C# and ASP.net, and I am learning a lot. It’s a good job. My current contract is 3 months, but I wouldn’t be surprised to be kept on for most of the year.

It is certainly nice to be earning again as my UK account is now empty!

Milord and I go from strength to strength, we are really starting to settle down now that we have a bit of routine. He still spoils me rotten though, and I’m loving it. A bloke who still treats me like a princess after 3 months – this is definitely worth crossing the planet for!

Autumn is here now, and I’m missing my winter wardrobe. I had to dash out for jackets and jerseys and closed shoes the other day when we had a cold spell, and we have the duvet back on the bed and a heater in the lounge. In spite of the temperature drop the weather is the best it’s been so far – clear sunny days with little humidity. My hair has finally stopped going curly and is back to the style I used to have!

As with all these things the “Bridget Jones equation” is in full force (that’s the one that says you can never be happy at work, in love, and thin at the same time). I have gained around 5kg+ since moving here and the clothes are all a bit tight! I dread getting into a bikini tomorrow…

But if that’s the worst of my worries I’ll take it!

Sunday, 12 March 2006

Old News - Newletter March 2006

Thanks for all the birthday wishes, I feel really spoiled ;-).

The best news is that my visa has been approved, so now I can stay and work for the next two years (extendable) - legal at last! The news came through on Friday, so a fab birthday present for me! I celebrated with a quick shopping spree for work clothes ;-).

I've had a great birthday. On Thursday I went for drinks 35 stories above Sydney Harbour, followed by dinner at a Tepinyaki restaurant (that's where you sit around a big hotplate and a Japanese chef cooks in front of you).

Friday was just a low-key drinks and dinner with friends, as Milord felt he'd organised enough ;-). He gave me the most stunning silver Tiffany starfish necklace with a diamond in it, so I can't complain! My first diamond ever... cool!

Yesterday we went sailing on a friend's boat. A new experience for me and not nearly as glamorous as I was expecting - very cramped with lots of ducking of flying ropes and winches - but certainly interesting. The weather was stunning, and sailing gently past the Opera House and Harbour Bridge is not to be sneezed at.

Today Milord and I were thinking of going diving, but as I have managed to leave my bag with wallet and phone aboard the boat it sounds like we'll be swimming out to the mooring instead!

I start work tomorrow, so hold thumbs for me ;-).

Tuesday, 7 March 2006

Old News - Newsletter March 2006

Firstly, I have landed a job! The visa is now processing and I should start work sometime next week we hope. It is in downtown Sydney, and as luck would have it there is a bus which goes just about door to door in half an hour ;-). I'm doing ASP.net stuff, fleshing out a system which has been built to prototype by consultants, and now they're using cheaper contractors to finish it. Not great money to start with, but a foot in the door and my next contract should be far easier to get. I'll be working on the call center webapp for Readers Digest - cool eh?

What else? Weekend before last Milord and I went off to Brisbane for a couple of nights - mainly for his work, but also for me to meet the family. It was his mum's birthday so the entire bunch were there... 2 Elderly aunts, his sister and 2 nieces. They're all really petite, don't know where Milord get's his size from! Apparently his dad was a learge man. Luckily they are all very nice and think I am too, so it went well. His mum is a lot older then I'm used to in inlaws (76) so I had a bit of trouble relating, but we entertained each other on Monday while Milord worked and I have a standing invite to come back at any time!

I think I caught a cold on the plane back, and have been sick as a parrot since last Wednesday. How I managed to perform in the interview on Friday I will never know as I was completely drugged up and fuzzy, but I guess they're not too fussy! I am now keeping Milord up half the night with coughing, and feeling very little guilt as he usually snores fit to rattle the windows! He's booked in for a sleep clinic next week to see if anything can be done about it...

This past weekend we went to the Hunter Valley for a golf competition and stayed with friends. We went to functions at the clubhouse Friday and Saturday nights, and Milord played during the days. I fiddled about wine tasting and exploring the local "town" on Saturday - to call it a one-horse town would be kind! Reminded me of those desperate karoo towns between CT and JHB. Oh - I found someone to ceroc with on Sat night! The style is a little different to what I am used to, but pretty much the same and still fun ;-). My new dress flares beautifully! On Sunday I joined Milord to walk the course and watch. Things sure have changed from when I used accompany my student mates for a hack around some scrubby course with a six pack! We had golf buggies, there were complimentary hotdogs, snacks and softdrinks all the way around, and occasionally a bigger buggy of beer would tootle by. A style I could become accostomed to!

It is our second "montheversary" today, and we are still going strong - better every day. Milord's divorce has now finalised which is a nice birthday present for me!

It's my birthday on Friday, and we have a couple of things planned. Thursday night we are meeting some friends at the top of the Shangri La hotel which is 20+ stories high and overlooks the harbour, then we are all going for dinner. Friday is a secret apparently... :-o. Saturday we are going sailing on a friends boat with a few mates. L is over from Auckland and will be coming along too which is fab.

So, things could not be any better! Even the weather has been perfect this week - hot and sunny ;-).

Monday, 20 February 2006

Old News - Newsletter February 2006

So, six weeks in Sydney now:
Milord and I are still getting on well.
I’ve been for one interview but didn’t get it.
Life is still good ;-)


And… it keeps raining! Who said this place is hot and dry? It’s a myth – I’ve seen more rain in the past six weeks than we had in the entire English summer. We have the odd hot dry day, but the rest of the time it is overcast and drizzly. They tell me to enjoy it while it lasts, but it’s affecting my beach-time! I’d be on Bondi right now, not writing emails, if it was a nice day!

The job hunting is very slow – although there are a few jobs going my visa status puts me at the bottom of the pile. Because sponsorship would take 3+ weeks, and everyone wants someone to start “tomorrow”, I’m not getting much interest. There is one possible nibble at the moment, so I’ll keep you posted! I had an interview just over a week ago, but it was in an area I don’t want to work in, and didn’t really go all that well anyway (over in 10 min – not a good sign!). I keep reminding myself that I’ve only been looking for two weeks and that it took me 3 months to land my first London role… Don’t panic!

Getting a little bored with being alone during the day now… sightseeing is not nearly the same on your own. I meet Milord for lunch a couple of times a week and do the odd exploration to stay sane, but I could do with a job – or a girlfriend to hang out with!

The house is completely rearranged cleaned and tidied, and I am now very comfortable in it. I’ve been doing a bit of gardening too and we moved all the containers around a week or two ago, so that occupied me for a couple of days. Milord has flowers growing outside now, which he grumbles about but I think might secretly like! Anyone who saw my garden last summer will know I like a riot of colour, so I’m slowly sneaking flowers into the shrubbery ;-). We also now have a herb garden which is fun. I used our own chives in the scrambled eggs on Sunday!

Milord is looking after me very nicely. For Valentine’s he took me out to a restaurant called CafĂ© Sydney, which overlooks the Harbour Bridge and the Opera House. It was fabulous! Apart from that he generally spoils me and treats me like a princess, which I could definitely get used to! He is avoiding any “future” discussions until he gets to know me better, which is probably sensible… but frustrating! I sometimes feel like I’m on an indefinite probation period! He has some emotional baggage from his horrible marriage to work out, but I’m hoping that when the divorce comes through (in about a month) he’ll be able to move on and do the commitment thing. Or at least stop looking at me like I’m about to grow snakes for hair! He’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had so I really shouldn’t complain - I’d probably run a mile if he suddenly got serious :-p.

What else? I’ve done some exploring, and got terribly lost trying to drive from home to Manly beach. I ended up circling the eastern suburbs of central Sydney for a while, which is utterly in the wrong direction! Turns out the SatNav doesn’t know about one of the newer tunnels under the city so accidentally sent me into it… and sometimes the GPS gets confused and thinks I am 2 blocks away from where I actually am and tries to take me the wrong way down one way streets! I am reverting to paper maps!